Archive for the ‘Surrogacy’ Category

24 hours

First 24 hours after delivery:  I was on magnesium in the hospital, for the high blood pressure, which is a natural sedative.  I slept a lot.  A LOT.  It was like being a teenager again, only no annoying mom yelling at me to quit being such a sluggo and get out of bed.  (For the [...]


Kind words

I’ve had many kind words spoken to me over the course of this pregnancy ….. people seem to respond really well to surrogate situations and are almost always supportive and encouraging.  I thought I would share two of the kindest,and clearly most heartfelt, which have taken place over the course of the last 24 hours here [...]


Premature

I know!!   For me, Queen of the Induction at 42 weeks, this little blessing, delivered at 39 weeks and 5 days, was practically premature.  But since she weighed in at 8 pounds and 1 ounce, and was 21 1/2 inches long, I guess we’ll let it go.  Technnically, we didn’t plan to deliver.  I went [...]


Ouch

In labor. Thank you, SBJ, for pain meds.


Nope. Not Yet.

A couple of you have mentioned that when I skip a day or two of posting you assume I’m in the hospital, delivering.  Well, never say never, I suppose, but since this is my sixth pregnancy, and I’ve NEVER gone into labor before my due date  (ha, look.  I said never say never, then I [...]


Things that are awesome ….

 …… at 38 weeks pregnant: Awesome:  My stomach is so huge, there is no mistaking me for just a chubby chick.  Total strangers now feel comfortable asking when I am due. Not awesome:  My feet and lower legs are just as big.  Scary-big.  Huge.  I’m pretty sure I have ankle bones in there somewhere, although you [...]


Did I ever tell you about the time I almost killed my friend’s dog?

No, seriously.  I really almost killed her dog.  And I wonder why I never get invited anywhere. Before I start, let me clear up two things:   1)  No, I did not mention this pregnancy at any point on this blog until about two weeks ago, when I spoke of it very plainly, after my blogging [...]


Many thanks

I just want to say thanks to all of you who took the time to answer my previous post with a kind word or comment. I always hesitate just a brief moment, finger poised above the “send” button, whenever I type a post that is that personal. Everyone’s entitled to an opinion, but sometimes my [...]


A difficult decision

And no, it’s not a post about the merits of chocolate chip vs macadamia nut, although I have given the topic serious deliberation at times in my life ….. Most of you that read on this site know that I have been a surrogate in the past. Three times, in fact. The first time, delivering [...]


The Birth Story

Dear Anonymous: I had the baby. Things went fine. The end. For the rest of you: (taken directly from my journal — not so much “why invent the wheel”, but rather, “I’m really lazy and can just cut and paste instead of composing a whole new story” …) We met in the hospital lobby shortly [...]